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Holy Crap! I forgot my anniversary!

Posted on 03/13/201103/15/2011 by Backpacking Dad

So, I forgot that my anniversary was on this past Wednesday. I missed my anniversary. Not the really, really, really important one, mind you. If I forgot that one there would not be a blog post about it, there would be an obituary.

No, I forgot my blogging anniversary. I posted my first blog post as Backpacking Dad on March 9th, 2008. It was about this one time when I inadvertently made out with one of my mommy friends. It’s here, and everything has been downhill since then. That was back when I was still going outside and talking to people (a.k.a. before blogging took over my life).

I had been writing in a LiveJournal account for a while before then. I think I had three regular readers, two of whom were high school classmates of mine. I didn’t understand blogging, but I knew after Erin was born that I was having lots of new dad-type experiences and I kind of felt like I was imposing by sharing them with people who didn’t have kids. I have a better perspective now, but it made me feel uncomfortable back then. I resolved to create a space that was just for the interactions I had in Dad World, while I would continue to use my LiveJournal account to chronicle stray thoughts about everything else. So I started a free Blogspot account and started reading other parenting blogs and writing my own stories down to share.

My two-blog world lasted three or four posts, I think, before I was almost exclusively writing at Backpacking Dad.

My first commenter was FADKOG, who writes For A Different Kind Of Girl. I left one or two or three or eighteen comments on her blog when I had my first post up, armed with my new Blogger identity, and she reciprocated with a read and a comment. That’s how you build readership, relationships, and reputation: First you must read, read, read, comment, comment, comment, and read, read, read some more. I don’t know how many of my first-post commenters still read my blog, but I know at least one of them does, and that’s pretty damned special. Thanks, FADKOG.

I’ve never had a huge blog readership. I built it very slowly, by reading and commenting on a lot of blogs early on, but I lost momentum with that quickly as other things ate into my blog reading and commenting time. I never pursued dramatic increases in blog readership, or if I did it wasn’t with any kind of consistent effort, and I think I have exactly the readership I am comfortable with. I have, since a strange Feedburner purge a few months ago, about 800 people who care enough about what goes on here that they are willing to subscribe to the feed. In addition to them, or amongst them, I can usually count on about 100 visitors each day who just come by on their own. Some days there are more (some days there are WAY more), but there are hardly ever fewer unless it’s a holiday weekend and there’s been a massive world tragedy that is keeping people off of personal blogs. Those numbers are far, far fewer than many other bloggers, and if it’s ever seemed like I have a more popular blog than that, I suspect it’s only because I made some friendships very early on with some very popular bloggers. My Twitter presence may also distort my real impact as a blogger. I’m not great at this. I’m just a fun guy to know for five minute intervals. But whatever the real numbers mean, you have all chosen to read this, many of you regularly. Anything more than zero readers counts as winning at blogging in my book. So I think I’m doing just fine at this.

I’ve been vain here, I’ve been a navel-gazer. I’ve been funny, I’ve been argumentative. I’ve been smart, I’ve been inconsistent. I have loved my kids, and I have loved my wife. I have shared some of that with you.

Thank you for reading.

26 thoughts on “Holy Crap! I forgot my anniversary!”

  1. Anymommy says:
    03/13/2011 at 8:54 PM

    Happy Anniversary. I always read; my commenting just sucks. Plus, I'm always a little afraid of grammar mistakes in your comments.

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/13/2011 at 8:56 PM

      But I'm, not the grammer police.

  2. rusti says:
    03/13/2011 at 9:07 PM

    well happy belated blogoversary :) I enjoy your commentary, both here & on twitter – and of course, there's always love for a fellow RedWings fan ;) congrats on your blogging success (measured of course in the friendships you've developed!) :)

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/13/2011 at 9:16 PM

      Thanks Rusti.

  3. Laceyjane413 says:
    03/13/2011 at 9:14 PM

    I always read, rarely comment :) congrats on an awesome blog!

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/13/2011 at 9:16 PM

      Thank you, Laceyjane. Free Internets for you.

  4. fadkog says:
    03/13/2011 at 9:32 PM

    Holy crap! Thee years? I think you had only left me one comment when the lure of your gray t-shirt(s) and Leo D. goatee pulled me over and compelled me to leave what were once pithy, long-winded comments. Then there was the wit and the cute kid(s). So well done, pal. I've enjoyed tagging along these last three years.

    p.s. – I just looked up the definition of 'pithy.' I totally got that wrong up there.

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/13/2011 at 10:41 PM

      Seriously, three years. THREE YEARS. That's a lot of John Hughes movies.

  5. The Momma says:
    03/13/2011 at 9:46 PM

    Happy anniversary! I'm a horrible commenter, but you're one of my favorite reads. So keep it up…

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/13/2011 at 10:41 PM

      I shall endeavour to persevere. Thank you for reading.

  6. Lady M says:
    03/13/2011 at 10:13 PM

    Happy Blogoversary!

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/13/2011 at 10:41 PM

      Thank you!

  7. Neena says:
    03/14/2011 at 3:58 AM

    Happy Anniversary – I often lurk, but always read :o)

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/14/2011 at 9:51 AM

      Thanks for lurking, and for reading.

  8. Adam says:
    03/14/2011 at 5:14 AM

    From a new reader (and twitter follower), congratulation on three years. That's like 80 in the internet world.

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/14/2011 at 9:51 AM

      Back in my day, we blogged uphill both ways, and we liked it!

  9. Anonymous says:
    03/14/2011 at 6:12 AM

    Have loved getting to know you and your family here as well as your tweets. Over the years of following some of the east coast Mom's I always got a chuckle from your comments on their blogs and the back and forth. You are a genuine guy and great dad! Congrats on year 3 and thanks for sharing your life!

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/14/2011 at 9:52 AM

      New twitter bio: "Genuine guy and great dad."

      Thanks Sarah.

  10. SuzRocks says:
    03/14/2011 at 9:21 AM

    Happy Blogoversary! I'm quite new here, but I think I may stay for a while.

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/14/2011 at 9:55 AM

      Drinks are in the fridge.

  11. Bethany says:
    03/15/2011 at 12:15 PM

    Happy blogoversary! You have the right mix, and then throw in a real thinker now and then, to keep us on our toes. Or make us drink early in the day. Thx for that. You're in with the in crowd. :)

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/15/2011 at 12:22 PM

      I'm also down with the sickness, up with people, and side-to-side.

  12. Mbcecil89 says:
    03/15/2011 at 5:23 PM

    I love your blog, and your tweets. I really look forward to reading your stuff. Keep on keepin on, backpacking dad. The Sahmsisters love you!:)

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/15/2011 at 5:25 PM

      Alright alright.

  13. Colleen - amadisonmo says:
    03/17/2011 at 12:21 PM

    Happy Anniversary to you!

    Unfortunately… your forgetting has reminded me that I also forgot. My blog anniversary was this past Sunday. Gee… I hope my blog will forgive me for forgetting.

    1. Backpacking Dad says:
      03/17/2011 at 12:41 PM

      Happy blogiversary!

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