Well kid, you're wiser and more at peace about this than I am. I think the term is "equanimity" and you've got it in spades.
But just so you know, kid, we're watching every Red Wings game together next year. Your sister and I did that last year and I'm pretty sure that was the difference maker.
And you know what? I'm still pretty happy. Happy to see you every day. Happy to hold you when you cry. Happy to bounce you to sleep in my arms.
See you after your nap, kid.